Adult Friend Finder Review

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Internet Enabled Remote Control Sex Toys

There’s not as many internet enabled remote control sex toys available as you might imagine.

There’s the Sanuk, the HighJoy Products (A Rabbit and a egg), plus a French product that seems to be in pre-release stage.  In previous years there was mention of a interactive adapter to the male Fleshlight.

HighJoy Remote Control & Internet enabled Sex Toys

http://highjoy.com/Products.aspx

These products are made by Doc Johnson, and consist of several parts:

1) vibrator or vibrating egg

2) controller – with multiple buttons for vibrator settings.

3) the usb to serial adapter, typically a Belkin unit. (which is not simply a cable).

4) a optional sleeve, if the ‘bullet’ model is chosen – either a penis and balls shaped silicone dildo, or a vagina simulating sleeve.

The USB to serial adapter is needed because the HighJoy remote vibrators use the outdated serial port, not the USB port and not many modern computers have serial ports.

To operate the HighJoy products, both player and playee need to sign up at HighJoy.com and pay $4.95/month to be connected.

Sanuk Cyber Dildo

This is truly a industrial strength machine, extremely powerful. We would not be surprised if this is the most powerful vibrator in the world. With a highly ridged, increasing width shape, this internet sex toy is completely unique. Unlike the motor in the typical vibrator that operates between 3 and 6 volts (2-4 cells), the motor in this super vibrator requires wall power A.C. (converted down to 12 volts). Included is a “clit” diamond for clitoral stimulation, and the whole setup comes in a sharp looking metal case.  Plug it into the USB port, Plus the power adapter into the wall 120v (no batteries here!), and you are ready to start, once you install the Windows based remote control software.

You can also download into the control unit you own designed rhythm, up to 50 minutes worth.  Set it to your favorite orgasmic music.

Q&A:

What do these internet sex toys cost?

HighJoy: About $55-$75 for the toy itself, $10-15 for sleeves, plus $10/month (for a couple)
The necessary Belkin USB to Serial adapter is included typically in the price.

Sanuk: About $185. There is no monthly charge.

All products currently on the market require Windows.

However, if you have a Mac and want cyber sex with a partner, do not despair.  It is possible to install the necessary software under either Apple’s Boot camp, or  Parallels software in conjunction with Windows 7 on a MacBook Pro or Mini.

Lelo Siri Personal Vibrator vs. Nea

Lelo Siri Versus Lelo Nea

Recently I was exploring the differences between the Lelo Siri and the Lelo Siri Personal vibrators.

Generally, the Siri is much larger, more powerful, with a more blunt tip, and the Nea is smaller, with a tip more suitable to pinpoint clitoral stimulation, and slight insertion.  The Lelo Siri personal vibrator has 4 buttons, allowing for easier pattern activation, while the Nea has two buttons, so they are dual function.

So, if you want direct pinpoint clitoral stimulation, the Nea is a good choice – small, quiet, and easy to aim.
On the other hand, if you prefer more indirect stimulation of the entire vulva area, the Siri is excellent, being larger, and with more powerful motors.

Here are some Lelo related review links and videos(non-explicit);

Video Review of Lelo Siri vs Lelo Lily

Google Search for lelo+siri+vs+nea

Today’s cool link:

Nana’s Sex Blog (in Danish)

Kegel Exercise Device Reviews

Kegel Device Reviews (For Women)

http://www.pathways-womens-sexual-health.com/kegel-device.html

This review compares the FeminX, Kegelmaster 2000, Kegelmaster, and the Pelvexiser.  It uses quotes and specific product complaints from Dr. Kegel to discredit the competition, and pushes the Pelvexiser.  Specific reasons stated for choosing the Pelvexiser Kegel device are that it provides biofeedback and that the wide range of tension weights (14) available in the Kegelmaster are unnecessary..

http://www.kegeltoner.com/

Advertises the KegelMaster 2000, a spring pressure device, and advises that it is the best kegel device here: http://www.kegeltoner.com/new_study.htm. The main reason they state that the KegelMaster2000 is the best is that it offers 15 different Resistance settings ranging from 1.2lbs to 7.8lbs, and it has a wide range of size adjustment – from normal width (size not stated) up to 2 5/8, supposedly for women with larger vaginal canals, possibly through childbirth . It uses four changeable springs to achieve this.

Additional Sites
http://www.kegelcompare.com/pelvexiser

Google search for “best kegel exerciser”
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=best+kegel+exerciser

Kegelcisor on Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Kegelcisor-K-01/dp/B001PI7QR6/ref=sr_1_6

Best Kegel Exercise Resources

For Women:

Super Kegel Exercises

Here is one super Kegel exercise for women that you can do anytime, anywhere without an external helper.

For Men:

Best Kegel Exercises For Men

The benefits of doing Kegel exercises for men include better orgasms, premature ejaculation control, and the ability to shoot your ejaculations farther that you might expect.

Love and Commitment

General Relationship steps:

Dating
Sleeping Together (may be at this position or later )
Steady Dating
“In Love”
Exclusive Relationship
Very Happy
Living Together
Pre-Engaged
Married

This is just a general list for now, any comments, suggestions.  Sarcasm allowed!

What is love?

Love means many different things to many different people. To me, love is having that special someone to share all aspects of your life with…good or bad. Love takes many different forms and constantly changes and grows. Exciting, gentle, romantic, trusting, comforting…all of these emotions and feelings are part of love.

If you are in love, you know it immediately. It could be love at first sight or something that emerges in a more gradual form. Either way love happens, it takes dedication and hard work in order to be nurtured. Does love mean you are never angry, sad or hurt? Of course not. In fact, it probably means just the opposite. Being angry, sad or hurt is part of being in love. It is the trials and tribulations of life that tend to make our love even stronger.

Just as in life, people are bound to mess up in love. Part of being in love includes the art of forgiveness. The people that love you the most will more than likely also hurt you the most. Being able to  forgive someone for hurting you is probably one of the hardest things about love. But, at the same time, it can be one of the most rewarding aspects of love.

Some people think that you can love more than one person in a lifetime and others believe that there is only one person in the world for everyone. I think that both views are correct. There are varying degrees of love that a person may experience. However, once you meet that one person, love  engulfs and you will never be the same again.

Love is hard to define and even harder to put into words. The question, “What is love?” does not have just one answer. To me, love is that indescribable feeling that starts in my toes and surges through my entire body. Love is what makes life worth living.

Love makes a family

Other things may change us, but we start and end with family.

-Anthony Brandt

From the moment we are born, we are connected to our family in a way that we are connected to no one else in the entire world. Just as we inherit our eye and hair color from our families, we also inherit unconscious emotional patterns and tendencies…the strongest of which is love.

Love makes a family. The things that children remember most when they grow up is how much love surrounded them and how much time we spent with them. Children watch everything we do and inevitably mimic us in most every fashion. A child catches a love of learning from parents who continue to learn and, in turn, teach their children to do the very same.

Every person in a family plays a certain role. Generally speaking, the woman brings life, the father brings strength and everyone brings love. That does not mean friction does not exist in some shape or form in every family. Some amount of friction in a familial relationship is an opportunity to realize the differences that exist between us and accept that although we can never fully understand each other, nonetheless we accept and love each other.

Make the most of your family and show them all the love and respect that they deserve. Your family is the reason you have become the person that you are today. Without family there is no love and without love there can be no family.

Good Loving

So, we´re here to talk about love today. It´s January 1^st 2009. The beginning of a New Year. What can we learn about love this year? What kind of love. What kind of loves are there. What kind of relationships based upon love. How do we define love and all of it´s meaning.

There´s romantic love. Love of family. There´s non-sexual love and there is love as in sex. With good loving we want to talk about the whole spectrum of love. From loving your friend. The intimacy of the sexual encounter. We want to talk about techniques to improve relationships. To techniques to improve enjoyment in bed and out of bed between couples.

When you say that you are in love, what does that mean? Is it an external force acting upon you? Is your heart out of control? Are you unable to concentrate on anything else other than the person of interest? What happens when you´re in love and why do we say that we ¨fall in love¨?

Love affects us all very differently and we all have our own interpretation and reaction to it. We feel it in different strengths and different manners. Some people have difficulty in allowing themselves to feel love and sometimes they have difficulty in allowing themselves to feel loved. If we were to assume that love is all around us, it would mean that we need to be tuned into it. We have to be able to perceive it, to see it, to feel it, to sense it, to taste it, to touch it. It´s invisible but still, we do see it. It´s in all literature, television, movies, everything around us. Listen to a couple of songs. What are they singing about? Love, love, love.

Romantic love is one of the most popular themes in the world. All cultures, all ages. It does not exist only within one country, within one type of person. As human beings we have the capacity to feel love and to want to give love. There are those that are hungry for love. They feel that love is lacking in their lives and as a result have a reduced sense of meaning and purpose in life. When we go out to movies we see good old Adam Sandler succeed in his quest for romantic love and in the end all is happy and his heart is filled with joy. Where does love fill us with joy? Does love really fill us with joy or does it unlock something within ourselves? Or is it somewhere between the two? If you have difficulty with love in your life; do you think it was more on your side or the other persons? Or a combination. By the way, I believe that there are tools that will help each of us grow in our ability to feel love and to enjoy it. It should not be such a painful experience, should it? If one loses a love we can have heartbreak and sadness and feeling a lack of something that we once had. Feeling the lack of something that we once had, we want to fill it with a different sensation and thus, sometimes people do turn to things that are not so healthy to replace that. That affection, that sense, the balance. I believe we all need to learn to balance ourselves whether we have more love coming in or less love coming in; let us learn to perceive more love in the environment around us. And if not in the environment directly around us, in the general environment in the world. There is beauty, there are awesome and amazing things in this world of ours, and if we can be inspired by these, perhaps we can feel love of a greater nature as well. So what is there about love? Well, there is love in romance, your very first romance. There´s love in a partner for life and having children. And there is love after that, for our children and for our extended family. How can we make love stronger? What is it? What blocks or reduces love within ourselves? Perhaps it is fear. Fear of pain, rejection and non-acceptance. If we are to love someone that does not return the emotion of the same level or type, how do we feel? It hurts perhaps. But why does it hurt and why do we let it hurt us? Do we need to take it so personally? If we take it so personally aren´t we injuring ourselves through our own actions by allowing it to happen? I think we need tools to protect ourselves and to allow such feelings to not affect us so long and so deeply. So what kinds of tools can we develop to allow our hearts to love fully? And experience at the same time, less pain in the case that our love is not accepted or is rejected. Where is the balance? There should be a balance because in popular literature people go crazy with love. Crazy in Love. Loco Love. Where does loco love fit in and what is it´s purpose. It certainly is a high point in life and a high point in personal emotions, to experience that. We have the rush, our hearts are beating, our anticipation is high. We want to hold, to caress. We want to spend our time with that person. We want that experience. And when they are not there, we want to feel that connection. So how much is love about connection? How much is love about the string of emotion that connects two people? We need to look at this.

So, the different types of love… Sexual love is very popular! Always has been. Sexually and erotic love. This can exist without loving a person, so is it still love or is it a technique and art. Or just simple technique? When is sex sensual? Perhaps there is just sex, but then there´s sensual sex and then there is loving sex. If you look at it this way: we have experiences in our lives that affect all three of these levels of love and sex. Certainly most of us have sex without strong love feelings for our partner and certainly we have had erotic, sensual times with emotional connection and attachment. Hopefully also we have had the experience of love and giving in a stronger and more complete sense.

Sex and love. The Indians have studied it for years. The Kama Sutra. Which is actually more about technique than the emotional component to open oneself up to love. To open oneself up to the partner, to give and to take freely, to trust. In today´s world/society we do not normally have the time to give to our partner to strengthen our relationship and to keep the faith. With todays pressures of work, money, job, friends and partying, where is the connection time? The time spent shared that builds these things? Well, I believe that we can develop tools and techniques to spend 15 minutes to 30 minutes at one time and build these intimate connections between you and your love so that you and your loved one can experience a higher level of emotional and physical bliss. Ecstacy yes, but emotional. I think that is something very beautiful and is a goal for which we will strive. And this will not be possible with all partners. And this will take an open emotional stance, which is difficult certainly for some people to allow themselves to get to. Is it worth doing? For most people it certainly is. Only you can decide if these experiences and exercises can bring you to a greater level of happiness as far as these things go. If you have been married for a very long time, it can mean new magic in the bedroom or outside the bedroom. For two lovers, a glance, a look, a light touch, can have such a greater meaning. It can be emotional and sexual tension or it can be simple affection and love. We are going to look into all of this. We want to be able to improve our heart´s ability to give love of all types. To be able to love our friends the best we can. To be able to love our family the best we can. And to give the special love to our partner.

Let´s look into some of the concepts and see what we can come up with to solve these problems. Problems that we may not think really exist but we can look at what the result will be. A better place. A little bit more happiness is going to be worth the voyage.

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